Well I'm a believer, but I ain't a saint
I'm a keeper, but I bet sometimes she thinks I ain't
Yeah I wrecked my truck, pawned a guitar
Buried a friend, and had a broken heart
I like to think I'm tough, but one thing tears me up
You can punch me in the face, stab me in the back
I can take a cheap shot from a bottle of jack
But in the mornin', I always wind up healin'
You can kick my dog, curse my name
Drag me through the dirt, I can care that shame
But I've never felt a hurt that hurts worse than her
Hurt feelings
Her daddy loves me, and so does she
When she was younger her momma said she prayed for me
She's as tough as nails right to the bone
Don't mind tellin' me where to go
But I can't lie, it kills me when I make her cry
You can punch me in the face, stab me in the back
I can take a cheap shot from a bottle of jack
But in the mornin', I always wind up healin'
You can kick my dog, curse my name
Drag me through the dirt, I can care that shame
But I've never felt a hurt that hurts worse than her
Hurt feelings
Them ol' hurt feelings
Yeah it's gone too far
When we wind up there
Cause I don't know when to quit
And she ain't gon' fight fair
Hurt feelings
Them ol' hurt feelings
You can punch me in the face, stab me in the back
I can take a cheap shot from a bottle of jack
But in the mornin', I always wind up healin'
You can kick my dog, curse my name
Drag me through the dirt, I can care that shame
But I've never felt a hurt that hurts worse than her
Oh I never felt a hurt that hurts worse than her
Hurt feelings
"Hurt Feelings" by Larry Fleet is a powerful and emotional country song that delves into the pain and vulnerability that comes with hurting someone you love. The lyrics paint a vivid picture of a flawed but remorseful protagonist who reflects on the consequences of his actions and the deep hurt he has caused.
The song starts with a confession - the protagonist admits that he is a believer, but not a saint. This immediately sets the tone for the rest of the song, highlighting his imperfections and acknowledging that he has made mistakes. He goes on to describe various hardships he has faced, from wrecking his truck to burying a friend, but none of these compare to the hurt caused in his relationship.
One of the most poignant lines in the song is when the protagonist says, "You can punch me in the face, stab me in the back, I can take a cheap shot from a bottle of jack. But in the morning, I always wind up healing." This line demonstrates that physical pain or external attacks can be endured and healed from, but the pain inflicted on his loved one's feelings is something he struggles to overcome. It shows the profound impact our words and actions can have on those we care about.
The vulnerability and remorse in the song are relatable to anyone who has experienced hurting someone they love. The lyrics capture the conflicting emotions of guilt, regret, and the desire to make amends. The protagonist acknowledges that he loves and cares for his partner, but his actions have caused deep emotional wounds. It is a reminder of the importance of treating others with kindness, empathy, and respect.
In terms of scriptural parallels, the song reflects the biblical teaching of the power of words. Proverbs 18:21 says, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits." This verse emphasizes the impact our words can have on others. The protagonist in "Hurt Feelings" realizes the weight of his words and the pain they have caused, highlighting the need for caution and mindfulness in our speech.
Additionally, the song touches on the theme of forgiveness, which is a recurring theme in the Bible. Ephesians 4:32 encourages us to "be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." The protagonist's regret and desire to make things right with his loved one reflect the biblical teaching of seeking forgiveness and reconciliation in relationships.
Overall, "Hurt Feelings" by Larry Fleet is a heartfelt and introspective song that explores the pain of hurting someone we love. It serves as a reminder of the power of our words and actions and the importance of treating others with kindness and respect. The song resonates with anyone who has experienced the weight of causing hurt and the longing to make amends.
